Ever have one of those weeks.....

.....Where you just kind of sit there wondering, at the end, if it really happened? Well, one of my closest friends just had one, and I feel so incredibly bad that it happened. Seriously, I'm not sure how much worse it could have gotten in 4 days. She drove out here from a neighboring state after work, which, between the 2 of us, we have done probably 100 times. Well, this time, she took out the guard rail on a blind turn going down a mountain, and totaled (I mean TOTALED!) her little car. And, if the guard rail had NOT been there, she would have ended up at the bottom of about a 100 foot drop. Yeah, not a great choice either way, but.... Anyway, she's calls me at midnight and I head up to get her (she was about an hour away). Honest to God, when I got there, I almost threw up. I do not understand how neither her nor her son were injured. It looked like they should have been in the hospital. So, needless to say, she had a crappy morning, talking to her insurance, trying to get all that settles. Next comes trying to rent a car. Not easy to do last minute without a credit card. But she succeeded, and at least had transportation. All went well until baby daddy drama, and we'll just say that he is an ass, and needs to grow up. She didn't need that on top of everything else this weekend. I'm just hoping that this won't make her decide not to come out here anymore. Just next time, get some sleep first and leave in the morning, ok?!?!